Thursday, December 25, 2008

there's always a first for everything

my family and i are spending Christmas at The Tagaytay Highlands Spa. went up here yesterday, Dec 24, and going back home tomorrow. mainly my mom wanted to get away from doing all the Christmas prep work (cooking, cooking and more cooking, to be followed by house-cleaning, house-cleaning and more house-cleaning). but at the same time, the whole family is also eager to just have a relaxing holiday, complete with free, fancy massage at the Highlands Spa -- this is Merry Christmas to us!

so yes, it's probably a first to spend Noche Buena without our traditional feast of...
- quezo de bola
- chinese ham
- embotido
- roast chicken/turkey
- pastel de lengua
- merced's egg pan de sal
- flowing chilled wine

and it's a first to have, in lieu of the above dishes, a mishmash of items such as....
- american ham
- blue cheese
- room-temp red wine
- skittles
- hershey's dark chocolate bars
- krispy kreme

....all because that's all we remembered to bring: junk food! haha!

i guess it's also a first to not be opening ANY gift on Christmas Eve. not that I open a lot, but all our lives we've been opening presents around the Christmas tree at the stroke of midnight. I intended on bringing at least a few to open even while we hang out in the hotel room, but totally forgot amidst the rush to leave the house as well :) 

it's also my first to be blogging outside of work or home! thanks to my brother's laptop and the available wifi in my mom's room.

well, just to cut to the chase, it's a refreshing experience to spend Christmas in a different way. i wouldn't dare say it's not special, because it's quite the opposite. it's probably even more special because it's so pure -- just me and the company of my family, all five of us + my grandmother -- enjoying each passing minute together inside the room, wearing pajamas and watching TV! no fancy gifts, no extravagant food.....just a luxurious setting of a hotel and expensive massages, hahaha.....but really, i haven't experienced Christmas any simpler than this. but it's cool, it's fun, it's rejuvenating, and it makes me feel more blessed than ever.

so before the day expires....MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL!

Sunday, November 16, 2008

Yangshuo adventure

How to recount this whole trip?!? To describe the task of recording everything that made it special as “tough” would be an understatement. I know I won’t be able relay all the things I want to, but for my poor memory’s sake, here’s a crude attempt…

View underhill Moonhill, one of the major tourist destinations and climbing crags in Yangshuo

This is probably one of biggest adventures Miel and I have lined up after the month-long Thailand trip in 2005 (post-graduation). Going to Yangshuo has also been on our calendar since early last year. We already actually bought a ticket for an October 2007 trip. Unfortunately, Miel suffered an ACL injury maybe two months prior to that schedule, forcing us to cancel our bookings and postpone the trip to this year.

And so finally, it pushed through. One very obvious blessing of our trip’s postponement was how an international climbing festival was organized around the same time of our trip. The First North Face/Black Diamond Yangshuo Climbing Festival is an event open to any climber willing to travel to the area and pay the registration fee of HKD 300 (but HKD 200 for early birds, like us!) We couldn’t have been any happier to catch the event, especially being first-timers to Yangshuo, as we imagined it to be the perfect venue to acquaint ourselves with the climbing area while meeting many climbers along the way.

But getting our asses to Yangshuo was an adventure in itself already. Yangshuo is a town in the mountainous region of Guangxi Province. Since it is in the south of China with no airport (nearest airport is in Guilin City which is two hours drive away as well), we decided to take the cheaper route of flying to Hong Kong city, taking a train to the border, crossing the border to China, and taking a ten-hour bus from Shenzhen to Yangshuo. Our good friend from Hong Kong, June, was supposed to take this bus trip with us. Unfortunately she got caught up with work and couldn’t take the bus with us, allowing our adventure to start earlier than expected.

Thankfully, doing the border-cross and bus-station-search by ourselves wasn’t as bad as we expected. The bus was also a big surprise because it was the first “sleeper bus” I’ve ever seen – instead of bus seats, the it had bunk beds and pillows and comforters so you can truly sleep throughout the trip!

The first real challenge Miel and I faced was when the bus driver dropped us in the middle road somewhere in Yangshuo, around 6:30 in the morning, instead of the bus station which we were “briefed” to be left off. Lugging a big duffel each, and Miel carrying his board bag on one arm, walking around the streets with no person speaking English easily made both Miel and I tired and cranky. So we decided that only one of us should roam the streets to find our hotel, while another is left with all the bags. And we decided that I do the looking while he waits and plays with his PSP. Fair deal, I’d rather walk than sit, not doing anything.

Yet again, it turns out that we weren’t too far off the hotel. Just about 15 minutes walk away, I saw the bus stop (a reference point) and Fawlty Towers, the hotel where June booked all of us to stay at. So I immediately walked back to where Miel was waiting so we could lug our baggage some more and finally check in.

By the afternoon, we’ve figured out that Fawlty Towers is only a 2-minute walk away from West Street, which is the “center” of the town frequented by tourists (both local and foreign) and is packed with restaurants, bars, shopping stalls and backpackers’ hotels. We’ve also managed to find the climbing shops and registration area for the event – making me feel both comfortable and excited, finally seeing a handful of other climbers. Our first evening was quite uneventful, though, as the event briefing was not providing any new information from what we’ve already read in a bunch of flyers. But it wasn’t so bad either, because it meant we can sleep early and have adequate rest for the next day – our first day of climbing.

From Day 1 of climbing, everything just picked up. Being amidst many other climbers, regardless of nationality, age and language spoken, made me feel very positive and just focused on what I was in Yangshuo for, which was climbing. Despite the terrible weather (in the 10 days we were there, the sun only came out in two days), despite some locals ripping us off and charging us nonsense, despite the work emails I had to make in between, there was too much good going that I was only compelled to throw all the negative vibe to the wind and savor every moment.

Again, it would be difficult for me tell what happened every single minute of every single day (even if I was just ten days), but allow me to go into LIST FORMAT in sharing my favorite experiences/thoughts:

  • The town was very easy to fall in love with. West Street, a very busy area packed with people, is enveloped by a beautiful scenery of mountains and mist. I keep saying it’s almost like Boracay with its shops and nightlife, except instead of beaches, you have mountains. And the weather is just fine for climbing! (Except when it’s raining, of course!)
  • Excellent climbing, both in quantity and quality. Yanghsuo already has 33 crags, but with a gazillion more mountains left unexplored, I’m pretty sure that number can easily expand! The climbing areas are very accessible, with minimal hikes needed. Then the routes are just so, so good! I’ve never experienced getting on a natural line that has all types of hold in one: Crimps, slopers, jugs, pockets, doing face-climbing, laybacks, underclings – a single route that demands you to apply all kinds of climbing techniques! And I don’t think I’ve ever crimped as hard because I couldn’t feel my fingertips with the cold anymore! They’ve got all kinds of limestone – flat, sustained, clean/smooth, textured, overhanging, tufas, cracks…it seems to be all there. The place is so nice that we’re already planning a trip there next year. There’s just so much to experience and accomplish and work on, and there’s so much to learn in terms of climbing style and expanding one’s climbing experience!
  • New friends made. On our first climbing day after the event, Miel and I rented a bike and found ourselves in a crag with some of the sponsored athletes who graced the event. By the end of the day, they were nice enough to invite us to climb with them the next day, and we’ve been hanging out with them for the rest of the trip. We developed a routine of meeting after breakfast, taking a van to and from the crag together, going home to freshen up, then having drinks before dinner, during dinner, and having dinner. They’re super nice and cool and talented and I hope to climb with them again in the future.
  • There were so many new things to do and try out. It was endless. The food, the drinks, the shopping, the bargaining, the people – both climbers and non-climbers, the massage, the mode of transportation, the hikes, the  weather…Every moment was an opportunity to learn about the local culture, and to reflect and appreciate your own.

SIGH. And it was just for ten days. Miel and I were both so bummed out when our last night came to a close, with the word BITTERSWEET plastered on my mind the whole time. It felt like just when were starting to get settled in with the weather, the climbing, and meeting more people to climb with, already we had to leave. So many other climbs to try and send, so many other good food to eat!

But all good things must come to an end. We have to hit the lows to feel the highs. And it just gives us more reason to come back to Yangshuo.

On the bigger scheme of things, it gives us more reason to celebrate this lifestyle we chose to live. This trip was one perfect reason of why we keep working hard, saving up, and why we keep finding ways to just go out there and climb.

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*Thanks to Joe for helping us get into the festival. Thanks to June for letting us crash in her HK apartment and introducing us to the "big" people. See you guys again soon!
**Pictures now up! Click here!

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Destination: Yangshuo

After two years of waiting...the trip is finally pushing through.

Can't wait to climb new rock!!!!!

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Let's take it slow...

Nope, not in reference to the same thing that Freestyle was talking about. I'm talking about -- what else? -- the four-letter word starting with a W and ending with a K.

Just when I was recently promoted, here comes the signs that're telling me that it's not about the destination, it's about a journey.

Sure, I hear it all the time...

Ok wait, I take that back, I do hear that all the time about TRAVELING, but not about careers. Nowadays, everyone is just in a friggin' rush to be someone, to be something, to make an impact, to earn a lot, to be out there and successful. But I can't help but see all the people I look up to -- they didn't do it overnight. They're so good at what the do because they worked their way up. Their years and years of experience is what makes them so good! So why am I pressuring myself to be at their level in a span of three years when it took them ten years to get there?

Then here comes Chris Lindner, professional sport climber, to further impress upon me how the journey matters so much to him. He goes around the world with a personal mission to spread word about rock climbing and the benefits of being a rock climber -- both to oneself and to the world around us. Nevermind if he doesn't always get the mesage across, but at least he learns many things along the way, which builds his character and will likely equip him for future encounters, and eventually lead to the fulfillment of his mission, as slowly as it may take.

Then there's Father Nonette, the parish priest in Mapayapa Village I, last Sunday, touching on one my favorite topics in Stephen Covey's Seven Habits -- blocking time for the "big rocks". He reminds us to not lose sight of what's important in life, like moments spent with family and friends, and to remember that all it takes is a little bit of prioritization.

Not that I'm feeling work is getting in the way. I'm not saying that just yet, because I'm still able to find ways to do the things I love. But I just can't help but wonder, What's all the rush about? What am I running after? Is it all about racing to the finish line? Carpe diem, they say. But even that is subject to one's perspective. You can "seize the day" to advance your career, or "seize the day" to maximize the time you can invest on the things you truly love.

I can't get myself to choose between the two extremes right now. Count on me to position myself in the "safe" in-between zone. The only thing I know now is that I'm not hearing any reasons to rush, and I'm more than happy to take my time, to stop and smell the sampaguitas (roses stink), to let all the sceneries and little learnings sink in.

Maybe my mind will change in a year. Maybe it will change in a week. But this is it for now.


Wednesday, October 1, 2008

Comedy Break!

Comedy break. Break from doing overtime on a Monday. Break from climbing. See, it was a break in more ways than one. On to the story...

For a different kind of gimik (not that we actually replaced an evening of climbing), my friends and I decided to scoot over to Greenbelt 2 to check out the "observational" comedy scene. Yes, lesson #1 for the night: may ganon palang terminology! They call it observational comedy in contrast with "those you see in Quezon Avenue," i.e., Clownz, Zirkoh where the comedians sometimes interact/put the audience in the spotlight.

Personally I was up for this because I've heard a lot (of good things) about Tim Tayag. Tim was one of the performers of the night – an event called Laugh Man Standing organized by Jack TV and eCircle Entertainment – as part of the group called the Comedy Cartel. I first heard about Tim at around the same time when Rex Navarette hit it big in Manila, but never got around on seeing his act. Meanwhile, I do catch him on his travel show in Living Asia Channel (On-Foot) and, whenever I fly Cebu Pacific, automatically flip to his column on the airline’s Smile magazine.


So I’d like to think I entered Spicy Fingers (the venue) with relatively high expectations (um, but this may be especially true for our companion Mr. Yap). But what I wasn’t aware of is how the show would actually transpire. All the while I thought we’d be watching around 3 comedians only, when the line up was actually made up of around 10! It turned out that this event featured not just Tim but, like I said, different members of the Comedy Cartel + finalists of Jack TV’s Laffapalooza (think Last Comic Standing with Jay Mohr).

I don’t think I’d be able to review each comedian, nor would I want to spoil their acts by describing their most memorable (both positive and neagative, haha!) spiels, but just a rundown of my top picks for the night:
 
    - Tim Tayag
    - Mike Unson
    - Alex Calleja
    - Marlon Olivan


Mike Unson


Alex Calleja


And it made me wonder…what made them stand above the rest? It seems their unifying elements would be their relevant themes – it certainly helped that they all talked about matters which I could identify with. Then there was the great story. Their jokes were not just randomly being thrown at you – they were tied together which made for a great buildup and kaboom! one punchline after the other. Being well-versed in English and Filipino was definitely a hit with me. It helps in relating with them and their anecdotes, because you know they are Filipino, just like you and me.

Sheeesh. I can be such a nerd. Nanonood nga ng pampatawa, ina-analyze naman sa huli!!!

So nevermind! Disregard the post-event analysis if you think it’s going above the line. I just want to say…I recommend that you try to catch the Comedy Cartel one of these days, and when you do, watch out for these men!!!

And may I just note...TIM TAYAG, I am now officially a fan :D













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*For upcoming shows/schedules of the Comedy Cartel, check out the eCircle Entertainment website
**Images from Comedy Cartel feature at Click the City and On Foot Online

Friday, September 26, 2008

Event: Climbing with Chris Lindner (and the National Team!)

Sanuk, in cooperation with Power Up Climbing Gyms' 14th Anniversary, SCAPI and ROX has brought Chris Lindner to Manila for an up close and personal Boulder Day at Serendra, the Fort, Taguig City on October 5, Sunday.
 
It will be a fun day of bouldering for all levels of climbers, check out the schedule:

 
OCTOBER 5 - Chris climbs in ROX
 
2:30 pm.- 5:00 pm.  - Clinic
 
Open Boulder clinic with problems set by Chris with coaching and assistance by the National Climbing Team and the Power Up staff.  Set up at Serendra: 3boulder walls with varying difficulties and a vertical top rope line for those who haven't tried climbing yet.  
 
Be you a hard core climber, beggining novice, kiddo climber, or just someone who wants a shot at getting vertical :) Come over for this chance to get coached by one of the world's best climbers and our country's National Team!

 5:00 - 7:00 pm  Invitational Competition: Beat Chris!

Watch the country's top climbers bat it out on the boulder wall in an attempt to beat the world's best!  Invited climbers will be the National Team players and the local gyms' hard climbers who've been showing great potential in the boulder scene.
 
 7:00 - 8:00 pm - film viewing/cocktails
 
Catch Chris Lindner's newest film "Spray" and hopefully free DVD's of the film.  Consequently, he's in Asia collecting raw material for his next climbing video.

8:00 pm.  Awarding and Closing ceremonies
 

OCTOBER 6-8.  Chris goes climbing in Cantabaco, Cebu
 
All are welcome to join up on this trip if you want to meet and climb with him :)
 

So see you at the Fort on October 5! 

Friday, September 5, 2008

the concert that might have been

CAN. NOT. GET. OVER. it was such a beautiful night. sad. but happy that i saw at least 1/3 of it. kahit imagination na lang ang ginagamit ko para mabuo ang gabing yon, ok lang. like i said before -- everything happens for a reason. there's sunshine after the rain. there's light at the end of the tunnel. something bigget will come. hahahaha.

repost from http://thinair23.multiply.com who reposted it from http://www.candymag.com/teentalk/index.php/topic,175472.msg4108473.html#msg4108473. kebs lang. may hangover pa din ako eh. tsaka ganda i-share to.

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We were all supposed to dance the Huling El Bimbo with a fantastic fireworks display. It was going to be the perfect song to end a perfect concert. I know because my sister said so. She was one of the band's PAs (guess which one!) and was there during the production meetings. On Sunday morning, as we gathered for our family lunch, she told us what was supposed to go down during the Eheads concert. The first set went exactly as planned, except of course for Ely's collapse. To refresh your memory, these are the songs we heard:

1. Alapaap
2. Ligaya
3. Sembreak
4. Hey Jay
5. Harana
6. Fruitcake
7. Toyang
8. Kama Supra
9. Kailan
10. Wag Kang Matakot
11. Kaliwete
12. With A Smile
13. Shake Yer Head
14. Wag Mo Nang Itanong
15. Lightyears

During the second set, the band was to sing ten more songs, in this order:

1. Maskara
2. Poor Man's Grave
3. Torpedo
4. Trip to Jerusalem
5. Back To Me
6. walang Nagbago
7. Maling Akala
8. Tikman
9. Spoliarium
10.Magasin

When Magasin was to be played, the screen behind them would have montages of various news and magazine clippings of them. It would flash alternately with shots of the band and audience until the song reached the coda where Ely sings "...ay centerfold ka naaaa...woo hoo-hoo, haaa-haaa" part of the song. Then there would be fire works and a fountain of sparks, going on til the last note of the song. Then the hydraulic stage would be lowered and the band would make a "fake ending". The lights would then go out. My sister said the band would wait til the crowd chanted "more". "It would take two beers' worth of chanting "more" she said. Then in the darkness, a very dramatic keyboard solo would be heard, and it would be the opening chords of Para Sa Masa. The hydraulic stage would rise again and there they would be. After Para Sa Masa, they'd switch into Overdrive. With the crowd pumped within an inch of insanity they were to hit us with Pare Ko. And then we would slow down and reminisce with Minsan. Finally, they would perform Huling El Bimbo. Again, after the last refrain, at the coda (la la la laaa...) the grand fireworks display would go off, fountains of light surrounding the stage. The next la-la-la parts would see fireworks from behind the general admissions section, and as the song ended there would be a burst of confetti all over the audience. Then the hydraulic stage would be lowered for the final exit.

Those were the plans for the Ultraelectromagnetic night. It may not have happened as planned but at least we knew they were going to give us a show we would never forget!

We asked my sister if the band knew about all these  plans and she said they did. In fact they were so excited about all the gimmicks and couldn't wait to party with the audience. "Nag-usap pa nga sila kung may mga kailangang saluhin na kanta just in case (di na kaya ni Ely)," she said. "And Ely said, hindi, Kakanta ako!"

I'm putting out an order to the Universe that we all get to watch the second set!"